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    Boss retired-Son took over...nightmare!

    Posted by: florenceg
    Date: 2/19/2010 9:30:03 AM

    Our boss (sole owner) was wonderful, driven, vibrant, fair, human, leading by example. He retired 2 years ago. His son took over. He doesn't know how to deal with people. He meddles in. He saps managers' morale. He does not understand what each of us does. He spends company funds for personal goods/services and puts it down as business expense. He is not consistent. He doesn’t do as he says. The rules don’t seem to apply to him. As the longest serving staff member and also the finance director, I tried to broach the subject and was told to mind my own affairs and to show respect. This person has done nothing to earn respect by the way.

    I am at a loss as to what to do to keep my management team motivated, and increasingly to keep myself motivated. We love our jobs, we love the people we work with. Our staffs have been with us since the beginning and anybody joining since then has stayed on... till now. We have a capricious, tantrum-prone little man to deal with, and we don’t know what to do! Would anyone have some advice for us?



    Reply from: Darvey
    Date: 2/19/2010 9:44:00 PM
    Reply: Well there is not much you can do really. I mean you approached him and he told you to mind your business and show some respect. It was his dads company and now it is his and you are his employees. A smart owner or new boss for that matter knows you walk in humbly and get to know everyone and gain their trust. I think in this case the son was not part of the struggles of starting a company and having the staff that hung in there with him through the good and the bad. Chances are that the son was shielded by the father from all the struggles in life (Just like any father does) and now feels entitled. I think when things sour up in the office to a point that he is in trouble he will either begin to understand everyone’s importance or he will blame everyone for all the problems until there is no one else to blame. Who know which way the cards will fall? Hey the reality is it is the sons company and you now work for him and if you like your job stay and if it is unbearable hang out till you find something better.

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