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    difficult transition

    Posted by: amy
    Date: 7/11/2006 9:56:59 AM

    I am in the midst of a contract company taking over the food service where I work. The process has been stressful, chaotic at times and frustrating. I am very familiar with contract companies as I worked for one for 14 years. I actually like my new boss but think he has a tendency to create some of the issues we are dealing with. Is there a tactful way to offer advice on how to make the transition smoother? In the past, he has told me to tell him how I feel, which I have opened up about some of my frustrations but not to the point of telling him how some issues could have been avoided. How do I know if he really wants to hear constructive criticism? This has all transpired within the last 40 days, so I don't know him really well.



    Reply from: mybossstinks
    Date: 7/12/2006 9:23:00 PM
    Reply: You might want to not only listen to what he says verbally but also listen to his body language. Also, to take a book from lawyers the best ones always prepare there cases from the other sides point of view before they make there own case so you might want to make a presentation from his point of view. Even though I'm stealing these ideas from Covey in the 7 Habits I've found them to be effective as I've gone through 2 mergers recently. Good luck.

    Reply from: gary
    Date: 7/17/2006 4:11:00 PM
    Reply: Amy - great feedback from 'mybossstinks' above. Think about start small with one idea or theme and possibly have a discussion during which you plant the seed for your idea and let it emerge naturally. Gary - Badbossology.com Co-Founder

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