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    how to tell some one that s/he is passed for a promotion

    Posted by: lonestar
    Date: 7/13/2004 6:25:09 PM

    Any suggestion on how to tell some one, who is interested in pursuing a management role, being passed for a promotion? The person's strength is in being an individual contributor. Yet, he did not seem to agree with me. I have tried him out as a lead. Yet, things did not go well. Now, how do I keep a good individual contributor motivated for being one instead of wanting a management role?



    Reply from: salahz06
    Date: 7/13/2004 9:57:00 PM
    Reply: Give him an alternative to mgmt career. Maybe a technical career path that utilizes his skills. A raise would also make a difference here.

    Reply from: lonestar
    Date: 7/14/2004 10:34:00 PM
    Reply: Thanks. I have given him a raise. Yet, he is insisting on reporting to me. What can I do? I have no bandwidth to train him. His performance is not meeting my expectation. In my view, he is lack of ambition to assist me in expanding the team. He lost 2 of my team projects to other teams ( I did give him a chance). He said that well the other team seems to be doing a good job at it. Thus, he stayed "hands-off". He did not seem to understand the political sensitivity of owning projects and expanding the team. I cannot tell him verbally. Because when I did, he went and told the other mgrs that I want him to take over their projects. Sigh...

    Reply from: bob gately
    Date: 7/26/2004 5:05:00 PM
    Reply: Employees often think they should be managers. What are the steps required to become a manager? Managers should be educated in management otherwise they are just employees with a manager's title.

    Reply from: ralfi
    Date: 1/12/2005 1:43:00 PM
    Reply: You gave a person who was not meeting your expectations a raise? This person provided information from a conversation you had with them to another work group w/o having the wherewithall to know it was not to be disclosed? This person is a political neophyte, and does not respond to coaching, and they certainly do not proect your business/political interests. This person is clearly not managerial material, and you may not be, either, unless you have/had the gumption to counsel and or 'resign' this character from your employment.

    Reply from: operation
    Date: 2/25/2005 2:46:00 PM
    Reply: give him a different role with status thayt singles him out and uses his real talents. a mini promotion. you like him so he must deserve it after working hard

    Reply from: lebow
    Date: 3/8/2005 2:52:00 AM
    Reply: i disagree with bob i have been with a company for 14 years and they still have not prmoted me they promote people to manager status with 5 months or less than 5 months in the company. Is that right can companies legally pass someone up for promotion after promotion even after 14 years. If the person has been by your side i say give them a chance. To many managers are given the title of manager. But not many are ready for the responsiblity or no not what there respisiblities are. Some companies never give a guide book or training manual from day one.

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