How to Stop Demanding, Rude Behavior of a Boss
"After extensive study of the phenomenon of "work place bullying and mobbing" I have learned that there are ways to minimize demanding, rude behaviors of managers. There are two general types of demanding, rude managers that you're likely to come across and they need to be dealt with differently."
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User: anonymous
Date: 4/3/2008 8:18:00 PM
Thank you so much for your insightful article. Having just worked for the President of a company who was a bully, your words about "true" bullies, resonated and truly made me know that I am not alone.
User: anonymous
Date: 4/30/2008 2:22:00 AM
I have to say, it took me a while, maybe ten years of working, to figure out what I really wanted: a) to work part-time not full-time, even if it means less income bc it's all I can do with my stress levels, and b) find good people to work with. Not perfect people, but people whose idiosyncracies I can stand.
Last year, I was busy complaining on these boards about the hell I was in with my boss. I saved up enough money, then quit. It was scary quitting without another job ahead of me. I had to contract for awhile with no steady income but a little here and a little there. Then with my good luck and help from God, one of those contract people needed a permanent employee - that was me! I was hired about seven months after I quit. It was a hard period to get through, but within a year, it's been a nice change. I can look back at where I was before and I just hated it. I hated the person I worked for. Now, my good boss seems even better knowing where I've been. It takes courage to walk away but I believe if you put yourself financially in a position to do it, it's the best thing to leave.
User: anonymous
Date: 9/7/2008 7:25:00 PM
I hope I get to some level of sanity, I have been working for a mean spirited woman and I get to walk on egg shells every day!!! oh joy work tommorow got any eggs?
User: anonymous
Date: 10/14/2008 5:23:00 PM
How do some of these people ever become managers? I too have a mean boss. The only time I hate my job is when she is going to be at work too and unfortunately she doesn't work from home. We have already made a trip to HR because of a fight we had recently yet her behavior doesn't change. I don't think it is necessary to be rude and\or condesending when you speak to someone especially a co-worker. I really don't feel inspired to show up to work tomorrow but the bills need paid. I will be walking on eggs with the rest of you who have bad bosses. Hang in there!
User: anonymous
Date: 11/5/2008 12:09:00 PM
I have to carry a 2 way radio as I work for a school. I've heard the expression "The only dumb question is one never asked". Try telling that to my boss who comes back over as a smart a**. He is also sneaky. We are suppose to rotate overtime, so everyone has the opportunity. He calls the same 2 guys to the side. In fact, if you are a woman, which I am, forget it!
User: anonymous
Date: 11/5/2008 12:15:00 PM
I don't know how these people become Managers. My boss walks around like his brains are scrambled. He thinks women are dumb. He has Epilepsy. Why is he allowed to drive? People with Epilesy can more than likely work, drive and live normal lives. This guy, however, totally doesn't think straight and he can be quite forgetful. God forbid we remind him. He gets a little rude and cocky.
User: anonymous
Date: 12/14/2008 12:37:00 PM
they made me sick
User: anonymous
Date: 1/9/2009 1:53:00 AM
i'm forced to wait at my job to clock in. my boss dont let me clock in until it gets busy i waited for one hour or more is this legal? can i be compensated for thos hours that i waited at my job
User: anonymous
Date: 1/14/2009 8:52:00 PM
Its actually the training they get in their MBA or whatever. Its specifically written in the books. So that means you cannot do anything. Unless there's a massive campaign against such study.
User: tootired
Date: 7/15/2009 11:54:00 AM
Bad bosses used up all their brain cells kissing butt, to get their jobs. Thus the stupid, abusive, bullying behavior. No brains. ;)
Be sure to remember how you were treated by these people, and refuse to treat others this way.
User: Violet
Date: 11/2/2009 10:38:00 AM
Well, I've just met a very rude boss. Thanks God it is not mine. It is a great relief. You know after dealing with him during the whole day I think I'g better be fired. I'm an easy-going person and I could find a common language with everybody but this time it was extremely difficult. But on the other hand if I needed this job badly I think I'd overcome this problem. You know Psychology is a very powerful thing. I find a lot of nice books at the pdf format search engine http://pdf.rapid4me.com . I believe it is not possible to change a person but if to take some efforts you can make him treat you in a proper way.
User: Violet
Date: 11/2/2009 10:39:00 AM
Well, I've just met a very rude boss. Thanks God it is not mine. It is a great relief. You know after dealing with him during the whole day I think I'g better be fired. I'm an easy-going person and I could find a common language with everybody but this time it was extremely difficult. But on the other hand if I needed this job badly I think I'd overcome this problem. You know Psychology is a very powerful thing. I find a lot of nice books at the pdf format search engine http://pdf.rapid4me.com . I believe it is not possible to change a person but if to take some efforts you can make him treat you in a proper way.
User: marksinclair
Date: 11/6/2009 5:47:00 PM
In my humble opinion, the best way to deal with a bad boss is to leave them. There is nothing more you can do. Start looking for jobs in your spare time and take sick days to interview. I didn't even have time for my laundry clothes anymore. It was sad.
User: sb99
Date: 12/6/2009 5:19:00 PM
Look if a boss is rude, you have to stand up for yourself and demand respect. No matter what your status is in the hierarchy, you deserve respect as much as anyone else. David DeAngelo @ Dating Advice
User: swatbolish
Date: 12/14/2009 6:25:00 AM
Just like marksinclair, if my boss is bad i will leave him and the job. We love our life not the job.
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User: brianss
Date: 12/14/2009 4:01:00 PM
There are two general types of demanding, rude managers that you're likely to come across and they need to be dealt with differently.
User: simpledelight00
Date: 1/10/2010 12:30:00 AM
Some managers think that just because they are in a position of power that they can just bully whoever it is that they want. It's utterly ridiculous!
Marie - Teen Dating Advice
User: anna7
Date: 1/11/2010 5:32:00 PM
I'm not sure if it helps, but you may wish to keep a complete record of how your behavior. You vaguely mentions his behavior, but no details, except to take credit for other peoples work. Write down dates, times, places and exact words used or the attitudes or behaviors represented. Keep a journal. Called "Diary of a Mad Sales Lady".
Sometime in the future, if you have the opportunity to share what you know with whom they hired, that would help take his place in employment or the owners may assign a manager to mount over their flock.
Sounds like they are willing to leave it alone because it seems to sales needed to make the business prosper. At this point, as revenues are good, they do not want to discipline and asked to behave differently. In fact, if she is making money and you complain about your rude behavior that probably will give permission to fire him and replace him with someone else.
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User: streek21
Date: 1/15/2010 3:21:00 AM
To control the rude behavior of rude boss,first you'll have to keep patient.Lets take my example I'm a very calm & quiet person and this my weapon against my boss.I work hard & never fear anybody about my working quality.
If the boss crossed the limit,then from our side we must react to it so that this types of incidence would not repeat in future.
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User: anna7
Date: 1/20/2010 4:04:00 PM
That is very funny and serious problem.well i don't think so that one can stop the rude behavior of the boos specially when boss is not in a pleasant mode.
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User: decomo
Date: 1/29/2010 11:57:00 AM
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User: marksinclair
Date: 2/2/2010 7:28:00 PM
If you have a rude boss, you need to leave immediately, says Danny Baumann, a smart guy. Before you do somethng you regret, of course.
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User: JNannes
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